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writes:My question is; How do I get my girlfriend to open up to me when it comes to our relationship?I've been with her for going on 2 months and the one problem I have with her is the fact that I cannot get her to come to me with her problems. I've told her time and time again that I'm here for her and I want her to come and speak to me when she has an issue. I understand that she doesn't want to drive me away but, problem is doing the job by itself. Lately every time she has a problem she tells her friends and 9 times out of 10 her friends will talk to me and tell me what's going on.We live together and currently have a baby in the oven so I want this relationship to be stronger than it is. So again, How do I get my girlfriend to talk to me instead of her friends when there's a problem in our relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2012): Its good that your trying to communicate, but your relationship is young, trust takes a little time to build up. She'll open up to you, give it time, but dont push her to much with that right now. You have a baby on the way, the important thing right now would be to connect with her and enjoy each others company. That way when the baby comes you have a better shot of staying together with the child.
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