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*ristina kumar
writes:Right I need some help..Me and my boyfriend had an argument Monday night over the most stupid thing.. He hadn't called or seen me all weekend so I said to him on the phone you know I wernt gonna bother even calling you today.. All he said was I ain't speaking to u when your acting like this and hung up on me.. We havnt spoke since? He pressed busy when I called him earlier twice!! Why is he being like this? I know it's minor but I dnt see him or speak to him as it is why is it okay for him to treat me like that? Reply to this Question
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reader, nes09  +, writes (7 April 2012):
 give him time. i think he was pissed because you didnt hear him out yet, on his reasons why he didnt call. give him maximum of like 3 days coz guys process emotion longer than we girls do hehe. give him space, dont ring him, just send him a text message saying., "i know it didnt go well, can we talk now? i hope we can fix this"
i hope it helps :)
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (5 April 2012):
 Whoo, what some of us might call a 'dummy spit'
Are you sure you want somebody who wont even discuss the issue with you as a boyfriend?
How can you resolve whatever it is that is upsetting him if he wont answer the phone?
I would leave him to his little toddler tantrum and just get on with doing whatever it is you do, work, study, friends, etc etc and if he decides to come around the YOU can decide if this is the relationship for you.
You don't have to accept anybody's bad behaviour, regardless of if they are a girlfriend or boyfriend, that doesnt matter!
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