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Despite being bi why don't I connect emotionally with female partners? I feel conflicted about this

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Question - (4 April 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've always considered myself bi, but as time goes on I find that I'm attracted to both women and men sexually, but emotionally I can't connect to girls.. With guys it happens easily and I feel comfortable around them. I'm not sure what my sexual orientation is.

Is there a reason for this? Or anyway to figure out why I could only imagine being in a real relationship with another male?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (4 April 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntMaybe it means that you are gay and that is the way that you are meant to be. Try not to worry yourself over this and just enjoy life. At the end of the day whoever you are meant to be with, whatever sex you need to be comfortable with them so just go with the flow and don't worry about it. If you feel more comfortable with men then so be it, go for men instead of woman.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2012):

Relax sweetheart I'm similar in orientation. I don't worry though. I'm 26 and quickly attach to other females sexually and romantically. With guys it takes more time investing to develop feelings. And even with feelings develop I mean simply unfeel for them based on personality compatibility. I'm bisexual but lean more lesbian by 75-80%. It's nothing to worry just do and date who you feel and when the feelings gone, let the person know to properly break up.

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