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writes:So I've been working with this girl for about 2 months and we never really talked a lot, but last Saturday, me, her, and another coworker hung out after work, and we were out until 3 am, just talking, walking around Walmart, and then we had Taco Bell. She drove us and we ate the Taco Bell in her car, and there were multiple times, where me and her locked eyes and just stared for a few seconds, then looked away from each other. I didn't really think anything of it at the time, but for the past few days I haven't been able to get her out of my head.She added me on Facebook and we talk on there a lot. She's the first thing I think of when I wake up in the morning, and today I felt depressed that she wasn't at work. She's said that I'm sweet and I'm her favorite person to work with. And yesterday, 2 of my other coworkers were about to leave and were going to wait for me outside, and she thought they were just going to ditch me, so she ran outside to stick up for me and started yelling at them.I don't know if I want to tell her because she is my coworker and it might be weird. So, I guess my question is, should I just try to let it go? Or just tell her and get it off my chest? Or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2012): Im with the other two on this one, plenty of signs, go for it dude! If things dont go your way just be chill about it, break the ice and say something funny, continue to be her favorite to work with. Its only awkward if you think its awkward.
I was actually in the same situation about a month ago, didnt go my way, but its not weird and we get along like we did before. I over analyzed a little though, the signs she's giving you is pretty convincing.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (4 April 2012):
 There is much to lose if you're wrong, but it seems she's into you.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 April 2012):
 I think you should tell her, There are big signs here that she wants to be with you, so you should go for it! There is nothing to lose so just ask her does she want to go out some time.
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