A
female
age
41-50,
*lewout
writes:I have been friend with this man via dating online for over a year. We’ve met at last and like each other a lot. We grew closer and closer day by day. We text each other daily even though only 2 or 3 words – just to say hi and sometimes more than just to say hi... He has booked himself away on expedience for a week with the forces. Up to date I haven’t heard from him yet as he was supposed to be back last week. I don’t know whether to text him to say hi or shall I leave it to him to text me as I don’t want him to think that I’m clingy or needy. Your views will be much appreciated. Thank you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 April 2012):
 glad to hear I was wrong!
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reader, Blewout +, writes (10 April 2012):
Blewout is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear Agony Aunties,
Good News to tell you all that he did contact me to say that he just got back as his stay were extended and he was missing me. Anyway I would like to thanks to you all from the bottom of my heart for your replies.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 April 2012):
 I would also give it another week then a shot text, if he doesn't react I would simply assume that he isn't interested and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2012): I'd have to say that if he was as interested as you seem to be, he would have texted by now
OR
He's in the man cave. Just needs time to recoup/recharge from whatever stresses that have him appearing to be reclusive.
Give it another week. IF you haven't heard back. Send a hey hope all is well.
I would move on and keep dating. I tend to avoid men in the forces/army. They are not as reliable as local, present, available men.
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reader, Blewout +, writes (4 April 2012):
Blewout is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTypo: Expedience, should read out as expedition. Thanks for spotting.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 April 2012):
if he was supposed to be back a week ago a text to ask 'how was your trip" (depending on what expedience with the forces means) would not be clingy or needy.
the issue is... if he is back a week and did not contact you, they he's just not that into you dear .
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 April 2012):
if he was supposed to be back a week ago a text to ask 'how was your trip" (depending on what expedience with the forces means) would not be clingy or needy.
the issue is... if he is back a week and did not contact you, they he's just not that into you deal.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (4 April 2012):
 What is "expedience with the forces"??
Maybe his stay was extended, who knows?
I'd wait one more week and if you don't hear from him before then, send an email.
Good luck.
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