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*azzedUp
writes:Can someone please give me a sample of a letter to send the girl I wish to ask to be my girlfriend? I do believe she is ready for the next step, as I know I am. She's 17, I'm 19. We've been talking for almost a year, and we both know we like each other. I want it to be a touching letter but I need some samples to get me started. Any ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, Glacier  +, writes (28 April 2012):
When you ask a girl to be your gf then, assuming she says yes, you guys really want to hug and kiss right after that you see, so a letter would be a bit awkward and unpersonal (yeah sounds contradictory).You seem to be romantic which is very nice and kudos to you.It would already be a nice step to actually ask her to be your gf because sometimes it's so obvious that asking isn't really necessary.I assume you guys have dated. If not, then do this first a couple of times.Some kissing tips. They key here is intimacy.- if she's into you then you can court her a bit by stroking her hair and by giving her kisses from the side of her head slowly down to her mouth.- if she's looking at your lips then she really wants to be kissed. Then go for it but be gentle. - make sure you're holding her at the back of her neck or back when kissing.- close your eyes when kissing. Don't stare at her.- separate her lips a bit. So choose her upper or lower lip.- give her a closing kiss on her forehead and/or cheek.If you do all this, oh boy, then she's yours. :-)
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (28 April 2012):
 You are in a wonderful moment. I am sorry to work contrary to your request but for something like this I think it should be done from your heart. If it is not in your heart to write that letter with your own words, then don't do it.
I am sure she would prefer and appreciate it if you asked her face to face. You could bring her some flowers at the same time. Why not write her a poem or love-letter later on when you are truly inspired?
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (28 April 2012):
 Jazzed up,
3 possible answers to your question. All of them Old Fashioned.
1) the direct answer to your question. To see some samples, Read Alexandre Dumas, or William Shakespeare. Both full of hopelessly romantic men wooing women in lovely language.
2) The old mans curiosity reply. Talking for a year but you haven't got the nerve to ask her out on a date? Wouldn't that be the "next level"? Man up and get on the phone and take this girl out a few times. The subject of commitment to a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship Will pop up so soon it will make your head spin.
3) The practical reply. You've waited a year already why not wait until her 18th birthday and make anything that follows nice and legal? Of course, it may take you that long to write your sonnet.
FA
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (28 April 2012):
 Dude just ask her stop being a punk your 19 not 12 be a man... you dont need a sappy oh my bad touching letter. Tell her face to face you like her and you want her to be your girl. its really too easy.
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