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Why doesn't he talk to me yet he smiles when his friend talk about me?

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Question - (28 April 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

There's a guy that I met at school who is known to be really reserved. By reserved, I mean...well he only talks when he wants to talk if you catch my drift. Like you could call his name a gazillion times and if he doesn't wanna talk to you he's not going to talk to you(though you may succeed in annoying the living heck out of him)

I kinda like this dude. He just seems like his own guy, yknow, and doesn't go around trying to impress people and I like that.

something kind of strange is happening though because when I said hi and bye he used to say hi and bye back to me and he used to talk to me when I talk to him but he almost completely ignores me now. But to all the other girls he's really talkative

Like he suddenly just stopped fraternizing with me.

But then one day my friend who is also friends with him, kept teasing about him and he called the dude and pointed at me like ;D yeah! yeah, man!

and I was like "stop," and he was like "what? he smiled. Be happy!"

At first I thought he smiled and shook his head(like guys do when they don't want somebody) but my friend was like nah he just smiled.

So, now I'm really confused.

All my other guy friends say that when a guy does that, he wants you

but the dude that I am interested in never speaks to me and when I speak to him he doesn't talk to me and yet he smiles when his friends talk about me...?

I don't get it.

Someone help me understand guys better XD

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A female reader, Thisiscrazy Australia +, writes (29 April 2012):

Thisiscrazy agony auntTotally agree with aunt honesty you can rack your brain for ever trying to work him out and listen to everyone else but you will never know he truth until you ask him face to face

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (29 April 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntAsk him. It's the only way to find out, stop listening to everybody else just ask him some day why he has stopped talking to you, ask him have you done something wrong on him and see what he has to say.

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