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26-29,
*he unknown
writes:What do I do?I think I love my ex again but this time it is different. We broke up two years ago and since then we have both matured and lately we have been speaking more especially over the last three months we have been speaking nearly everyday, I see him most night because we are committed swimmers. Also, my friend said that he isn't looking for anything till exams are over so do I try now or wait?at the moment we are closer than what we have ever been before he tells me most things like his parents splitting up. Do you think he likes me ? And should I get back with? And how do I get him back?
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reader, the unknown +, writes (29 April 2012):
the unknown is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for replying I have seen him with in the last two years and I have watched him go theough relationships also I have watched him changed. Everytime I put a negative update he is first to ask what's wrong, I really don't have the guts to ask himn and I don't know whether it will chnage if he told me,and he is one of thoys boys that doesn't show much emotion, I also know he isn't looking for something untill exams are over :/
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reader, DunKair  +, writes (29 April 2012):
First thing that you should do is remember why you broke up. Is he still worth getting back? Do you think the same thing will happen again after a while?
Another thing is that you havn't seen each other for two years, and people do change. He could be different now, but at the same time he also has a lot of new baggage. Most likely, in those 2 years he has possibly had another relationship with someone else. His past might bother you now because you dated him before.
The best way to get him back is to just ask him honestly if he still has feelings for you. An important part of a relationship is being honest and opening up to your SO. Just tell him that you still like him.
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