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anonymous
writes: My boyfriend ended our relationship 2 days ago. He said it was because there can't be any future for us (he is from another country). He said he doesn't want to waste my time because I deserve someone who will take care of me. I am not looking for a permanent relationship right now. We work together and have been dating for almost a year. (he has ended it before over the phone when he was away for a few months, but we got back together after about 2 weeks). He is only here for a few more months and i just want to enjoy his company. When and how do I fight to get him back?
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reader, Thisiscrazy +, writes (29 April 2012):
If you enjoy the time with him then tell him your not after a permanent relationship and just enjoy the time your with him... But if you have feelings for him cut the cord and move on Hun or you will get hurt. I give the guy some credit for being honest but I also think he has someone else...be the strong one and say ok no worries why fight for someone who clearly doesn't want you
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (28 April 2012):
If you don't want a permanent relationship, maybe this is the perfect opportunity to tell your ex that you want to stay friends. That way, you can still see him and enjoy his company with out either of you being under pressure to continue with a relationship which doesn't appear to be working.
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen +, writes (28 April 2012):
Pardon the expression, but you may be `flogging a dead horse' with this guy.
If you really feel that you need to fight to get him back, then the time is NOW.
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