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writes:In January I had to move schools to the town over. When I was there I became friends with this guy and we started dating March 8th then on March 12th I had to move back to the school I was at before. He was my first love and I was his we broke up cause we never get to see eachother and we still like eachother a lot but neither one of us can stand not seeing eachother. Hes really religious and his parents don't approve of that much so he never gets to do much stuff on the weekends. I saw him this Friday, the 30th, since I left on the 12th and everything we had was still there. I miss him a lot and I don't know what to do we both want to be together but neither of us can handle not seeing eachother. He was the only good thing I had and I don't want to lose him but it doesn't seem like I can help it. I want to be with him more then anything and anyone I love him. What could We do to get to see eachother withough our parents knowing and keep everything we have? It kills me to not see him I cry myself to sleep every night because I miss him so much. If you could help me with some advice or even a way to get over him if we can never have anything it would really help. It will be greatly apresiated. Thank you!
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reader, williamherbert  +, writes (7 April 2012):
im so so sorry to tell you this but i sont think it can work out i know the 1st love sceems like the only one and it will hurt for a while Trust me im much older and have been there and lossing my 1st love nearly broke me but in rime things get better you r still young there will be other people trust me on this i hope things get better for u
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reader, daniellelovesu +, writes (5 April 2012):
Im gonna keep this short :I am very sorry to say but you CAN'T- it is impossible trust me... my dumbass has tried and I ended up getting caught by police lol LONG story. Don't cry babe I feel for you but you need to look out their as many more 'fish are in the sea'.Maybe talk to someone and when your older meet up. For now either take a break until something is arranged /for ex- let your parents know you cry for him OR.......... you can keep skype-ing/msn/facebook here are a few tips sweetie--Talk constantly.-Take chances and have faith. (think about this carefully I want to make you think for yourself and figure the secret out.)-Manage expectations-Raise Your Trust Level and -Be positivexxLove danielle need anymore help- just ask me for advice xxxx
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reader, agonyauntsanonymous +, writes (3 April 2012):
Well first off i just want to say that crying for someone every night that you met about a month ago isnt quite right. I know you are very close and in love but it seems like you are perhaps too dependent on the notion of being able to see him. On that note... Do you have his number and are you able to contact him? I dont quite understand why your parents both of your parents would be kept in the dark about this. Its odd to me that they wouldnt perhaps drop you two off at a park or a cinema to see one another. Maybe they would worry you two would get sexual. Which you should of course wait on until you are at least in college or married. It maybe a good idea to have a group outing u bring a friend and he brings a friend. But you cannot go sneaking around your parents backs. They maybe more understanding than you realize. Its also a very good idea to get to know this person more and that would be a good oppurtunity. Even if you only get to see him once a week or so. Try talking with your parents about this
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