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writes:So before you read this you have to realize that I'm not one of those controlling girlfriends that get jealous over everything. 'Cause the thing is, I'm not like that at all! I could care less if my boyfriend hangs out with other girls because I have guy friends too and I understand. It's whatever! Guys and girls can hang out and just be friends!But I just logged onto Facebook and I saw that he liked a picture of this girl that was posing almost half nude. He doesn't know the girl personally she's just some model. I know that he's not going to try and get with her obviously. I'm not freaking out over it. I just want to know, do I have the right to be upset? Or is this nothing and I'm making too big of a deal out of it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012): Hmm. I imagine there are many who would like such an image. However, the 3 second rule applies as your BF is in a committed relationship with you and therefore is expected to curb such 'instincts' as he should be governing himself honestly and with fidelity.
People may laugh at this form of wisdom and standard of living.
But if you can cultivate such practices at an early age, the better off you will be in the dating years to come and well into marriage.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 April 2012):
 Eh, don't worry about it. It seems a little LAME imho to "like" pictures like that on a personal FB page, but I would venture a guess that it is quite common for someone his age.
Now if he tried to talk to said "half naked" chick, you might have a problem.
But him "liking" a picture of a hot girl is not really anything to get your panties in a bunch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012): you're making a big deal out of nothing.
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reader, Wisdom  +, writes (2 April 2012):
 Relax, He is a young boy with hormones.... be more worried if he didn't like the pic!
Just take it in your stride, You will get a better result :)
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