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writes:My sex buddy and I consider ourselves a but more than that we hold hamds , and after sec once I tried to leave and he pulled me onto his bed. He likes to wake up to me , we open up when we hangout with friends it's no surprise when we kiss. He saw me kiss his friend and he asked me who does it better and I told himI didn't have sex with him just kiss him . So the night after we had sex he was at a party he kept talking to me since that other guy was there. He and I can't be official he's good friends with my brother therefore my brother will not like that . My sex buddy is very jeleous he likes me to not be with anyone we hang out watch movies everything like couples I wanna know if he's more than a sex Buddy and why he gets jeleous . ? Is it more than friends with benefits ? THANKYOU your opinions will be very Helpful
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012): Wait so your brother is okay with him using you like a fuck toy but wouldn't like you being in a relationship with him?
That's probably the first time I've ever heard of it being that way. I'm a brother and if I found out any of my friends were boning my sister I'd knock them out, I might be okay with it if they had real feelings and a relationship going on though.
Does your brother know he's boning you? Forgive me for asking but it sounds like a bad excuse to me. "I can only have sex with you because your brother wouldn't be okay with us being in a relationship." If he wouldn't like you being in a relationship then he'd like it even less if you were his casual hook up.
I don't buy his excuse if he really gave a damn about your brother he wouldn't be boning his sister and if he really gave a damn about you he would make it official.
At the moment he's showing no consideration to either you or your brother. All those little signs you think mean he likes you don't mean that OP. We guys tend be very affectionate with the girls who give us pussy, that is after all what is required to ensure they give us more pussy.
Make no mistake OP all you are to him is some free and easy pussy, that is the very definition of sex buddy. If you want more then you have to make it happen by telling him that. He's already crossed the line as far as your brother is concerned don't let him use that as an excuse to keep you his secret piece of easy ass, unless of course that's all you want. If so, then forget everything I said.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (2 April 2012):
 The only way these questions will ever be answered is by TALKING to him. If you can't have a conversation about what kind of relationship you have or want, then you shouldn't have sex with him. A sexual relationship isn't a good idea if you can't talk about the most basic of things.
Whether or not he's jealous doesn't mean anything. Whether you hold hands or not doesn't mean anything. FWB's can be jealous all the time, and it often has nothing to do with emotional attachment.
So, rather than try and analyze the signs, just cut to the chase and have a talk with him about it. You'll find out what his feelings with you are all about, and you'll have all the answers you could need or want.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 April 2012):
 If you can't be official then you are nothing more than a sex buddy.
Why is your brother so darn important that you and this guy can't be open about it?
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