A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:My male best friend has started seeing one of my friends recently and already it's complicated.Before all of this really started they were flirting and he would call her some not nice names when talking to me because she has a habit of flirting with everyone then dropping them. He started saying this because he thought she was messing with him and playing mind games. He also said that he liked her a bit but didn't want a relationship with her.There's also another girl in the picture, they fooled around at a house party once and they keep drinking together.Anyway, more recently he keeps meeting up with the first girl and one time he asked if he could kiss her and she said no because they weren't in a relationship.She asked if I was uncomfortable with this and I said that it was none of my business but I did feel a little jealous that she gets to spend more time with him but overall I don't mindI'm just worried that he's going to get mixed up in this, it's already taken a toll on our friendship but I want to be able to help him. He isn't a big talker and I'm not sure what to do, I want him to be happy but now I'm becoming unhappy that we're not hanging out as much especially as we've just recovered from a bit of a fall out and we're really happy. What do I do?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 April 2012):
 I'm sorry your mate is going to have to make his own mistakes.
And next time, don't lie to him, be honest.
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