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36-40,
*evicious
writes:Hi, I'm still a virgin... I recently bought myself a dildo.I plan on breaking it on my own.. also bought myself some lubricant as well and I just had a first session, but I did not break... At least I don't think I did.Now my question is... Would it make a huge difference if I continue to do what I just did, keep on stretching and it will help lessen the pain in the end when I do break it?Or it doesn't matter? Thanks in advanced!And by the way, it is my own choice. I'm sick of being a virgin (nobody is pressuring me.) I want to be able to enjoy myself. I've had so many sexual frustration in my life and I don't do anything about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012): Sorry but what virgin do you know of is so matter of fact and graphic about such things?
The majority of such posts from ACTUAL virgins are not so familiar. They are shy, timid, and wary to even discuss their virginity.
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reader, JustHelpinAgain +, writes (2 April 2012):
Well OP, there's a fair chance I've known a few more vaginas than you and the one thing that is for sure is that you don't push anything inside one until its owner is well turned on and there is plenty of lubricant, either from you or from a bottle. Get whatever turns you on, add a glass of wine and lie back and enjoy yourself, use your fingers as well. I hope you didn't buy a King Kong model or you will be in for more pain than pleasure! !
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (2 April 2012):
 The hymen is not really what causes pain for first timers, it's just a little skin flap basically.
And if you can insert a dildo, you most likely broke the hymen, if it wasn't "broken" already from physical activities.
If it's not painful now, I don't think it will be later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012): "At least I don't think I did."
Are you sure you even have a hymen OP? These days it's less and less likely that a girl your age will have one as there are so many ways to break it. Riding a bike, a horse, rollercoaster, using a tampon, stretching, playing sports.
If I were you I'd grab a mirror and have a look or you could just ask your gynaecologist.
I don't think it matters OP if you're able to take a full dildo without pain then you're fine. If you've only been easing bits of it in then just keep going further each time. It's not just the hymen that can cause pain, the overall tightness of the walls can too.
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