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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone just wondering your opinions in this situation I have been sleeping with a man for over a year now who is trying to get over his ex as he was with her for a long time I went out at the weekend and I kissed another man and the man I have been sleeping with for a while was there and he saw me I didn't think I was doing any harm as we are not togther as a proper couple and now he won't speak to me, why do you think he reacted like this and what should I do? thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012): Oh well! Your FWB doesn't love you or plan on taking things further obviously so at the end of the day, it matters little how he reacted. If he were that jealous of you being with others he would have readily taken you off the market but he didn't so he's not.
You were literally the gift that kept on giving and now you are giving it to others and so his free meal is at stake! Just move on.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (2 April 2012):
 "Friends with benefits" carries NO OBLIGATION on the part of EITHER the BENEFICIARY or the BENEFACTOR.... and BOTH participants have BOTH positions.....
Your kissing some guy/any other guy is NONE OF HIS BUSINESS.... IF he wants you to be a "true" "girlfriend" then he must tell you so, see if you concur, and the two of you can become "B/F-G/F" and that will change the dynamics of what should go on between the two of you....
Good luck...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 April 2012):
 Well, maybe it's time to end the FWB anyways? I wouldn't worry, maybe that was the PUSH he needed to start thinking about meeting someone he can care about and be on a real relationship with.
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