I think he's the one but he's too afraid to get involved

A female age 30-35, *eema99 writes:

I am 21 years old and I recently got out of a relationship that lasted almost 3 years.. anyways, on my birthday I kinda met someone on facebook.. sent an invitation we started chatting and all for a few days we were chatting for hours.. a couple of days later he asked for my number (because I had internet problems) he called me at night, we talked till 6 am. the funny thing is we both lose ourselves in time when we're talking to each other. he told me that must meet and so we did but just for a few minutes. he told me about how he was with a girl for 2 years and when we broke up he was crushed and was more crushed when he found out that she got really sick over the break up, he assured me that he was over her though because it's been 9 monthes. on thursday we were talking on the phone at night when he said that he has feelings for me, so did I, but he said he is scared of the future. we decided to meet 2 days later (on sunday) saturday he practically ignored me. on sunday we met; talked for like 30 mns and it really felt like we know each other for decades. then he said "I think we should stop here because I find u very fragile and so am I if we "love" each other more and sth happens and we had to break up I don't know what will happen" I was shocked really. anyways I tried for 2 hours to convince him that it doesn't have to end like that but nothing. he held me in his arms, kissed my lips and left. P.S he said he wants to stay friends but I said no . today I called him just to say how r u. the thing is I want him so badly I feel like we belong together what shall I do plz help me ASAP.. I think he's the one

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