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writes:A few months ago my this guy and I (who I am in a complicated relationship with) got really distant. I thought it was because he was cheating with this girl who lived in New York. Last week I texted asking if he goes out with this girl named "Jalen". Jalen made a bunch of facebook statuses about how her and my boyfriend Skype all night and have phone sex. He didnt respond, so I said thats okay he can have a nice life and I want my stuff back. He still hasn't responded and we haven't talked since. I found out today that Jalen's boyfriend just has the same name as mine and lives in the same city and shares a lot of hobbies my boyfriend has. So, this whole time I have been calling him a cheater and stuff. He never responded when I asked him questions about it, so I assumed my assumptions were right. Now I'm finding out that I'm wrong. What should I do? Or should I just let this relationship go because if he wanted to keep us together would he have told me he wasn't with her?
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reader, peacelovecandy +, writes (4 December 2011):
 I have totally been in this situation, hahaha. My boyfriend's name is Steven - very common... It happens! It's just a silly misunderstanding, and if he loves you, he'll laugh about it and let it pass. If he finally does respond, and is angry about it, just tell him you're sorry and try to make a joke out of it, unless you really want to let it go. Honestly, it's nothing to be angry over.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (4 December 2011):
 Call me silly, but if you want to keep your relationship you had better apologize to your faithful boyfriend!
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