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writes:hi,We fell in love almost 2 years back. but, now her family is not allowing her relation with me and even she has decided to do what her family wants her to do.I have accepted her decision. What should i do, so that atleast i wont feel the void in my life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2011): I think she has not loved you as much as with her family, if she has loved you more then her family, she would have stand for you and if you have loved her somuch but she has not then her family loved her more then you, so leave her look forward for better
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 December 2011):
 There really is not a lot that you can do here. Give yourself time to get over her and accept that it is over and there is nothing you can do to make her change her mind. Allow yourself time to be sad and upset. Hang out with friends and allow them to cheer you up. Keep yourself busy and independent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2011): You can not expect to move on from this overnight. What you do need to do is let yourself feel that void and get over it on your own terms.
You can do things to try make the experience more sufferable though like start a new hobby so you are constantly busy, spend a lot of time with friends and family so you aren't on your own to feel lonely or 'think', maybe even go on a trip away with some mates or do something you really want to do like travel or study. I know its the typical saying, but it all does take time and it does depend on your voices in your head. If you tell yourself to move on and keep yourself busy, it will be easier than pining over the decision and wishing it was a different way.
I'm sorry to hear your girl has decided to go with her family choices over you. But it goes to show you are now able to move on and find someone who has the time for you :)
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