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writes: I am close to an attractive older woman who is 12 years older than me. I would like to consider sex with her. I am a bit concerned about satisfying her sexually if we do it.What are some ways to sexually satisfy an older woman? How can I make the experience of sex good for her? What are some tips that can sexually satisfy an older woman? How can I leave her desiring me again and again...I request experience ladies who have enjoyed with young men to reply PLEASE. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (5 December 2011):
 My boyfriend is 13 years younger than I am. he is warm and loving and affectionate. we make sure that lube is available at all times as needed.
we make love just like I did when I was 21 as I do when I'm 51....
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reader, bluecow  +, writes (5 December 2011):
 I cant speak from my own experience (I'm 31) but I can give you some tips via my lovely friend and pseudo-mum who is 62.The mechanics are the same, everything works in the same way. The clitoris is still in the same place etc.What may be lacking is lubrication. IF she is peri/post menopausal women often lack in their own natural lubrication. Its not something controlled by how turned on she is... the body just seems unable to make enough.May I suggest a nice soft massage with water based "oils" to set the mood, and keep the lubricant to hand.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (5 December 2011):
 There are a few important details to keep in mind when you are being intimate with an older woman. Here are a few:1. DON'T whisper sweet-nothings in her ear.... she probably won't be able to hear you. Be sure to speak up!2. Put her cane or walker in the corner of the room and not too far from the bed, so that she will have easy access to it when she gets up to go to the bathroom (which she WILL, assuredly, have to do!!)... but out of the way enough so that you won't trip over it when you get up to get condoms from your pants pocket....3. Don't expect to find her wearing fancy lingerie. She will, most likely, be wearing "Depends" undies... and they come only in white or light blue.....4. She may choose not to nibble on your ear lobe. Don't be alarmed and insist upon it... since she DOES have to worry that her teeth will slip and fall on your shoulder...Good luck. My experience is that - despite the compromises - s*x with older women is lots of fun!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2011): She is a woman, whether she is older or not makes no difference. You should be able to satisfy her like anyone your with. Treat her with respect, make her feel attractive and special. There is no special technique, and pay attention to how she responds to you. That's all I have. Good Luck.
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