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*d90
writes:My boyfriend has a problem maintaining an erection after he has a bath. He reasures me that he finds me attative and says that I am not doing anything wrong. I am not to bothered by this but he is and it really gets him down. As we are trying for a child. I was just wondering if the pressure of trying for a child could do this. As it was his idea to try for a child. I just need help in wat to say when he loses it as he feels like a failure and I try to reasure him that he is not but he just does not believe me.
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reader, Jd90 +, writes (5 December 2011):
Jd90 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your advice xx
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (5 December 2011):
I'm not sure. Maybe he is a bit nervous about having a child? I remember when my wife wanted to get pregnant and it was great, unfortunately it happened too quickly! Any kind of stress is bad for sex, and as all men eventually discover, it is a terrible shock when his friend decides not to jump into action immediately.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (5 December 2011):
 I suggest that you and he do nik-nik prior to his bath....
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2011): Oh definitely that's what it sounds like. Here's what you do, drop the child subject, but don't use protection. Just make him thinks its you guys having sex for the sake of having sex. That will make him more comfortable and when he is enjoying himself, then you could give him a corny line and he'll "finish" and Walla, baby
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