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female
age
30-35,
*eacelovecandy
writes:I'm dating someone who lives two hours away. We've only been dating for about six months, and we've known each other for a year. When we first began talking, I was SO into him and when we had little arguments I would go over the top about apologizing. He treats me very well and does anything and everything for me. He recently lost his job and just got unemployment to buy a better car so he can see me more often. It's been a month since I've seen him, and we normally only hang out every other weekend. The distance is beginning to put a strain on us. He says things will get better, etc. but they never seem to. I know most people would say move on, ldr's aren't worth it, but he loves me. I love him, but I feel like we're getting weaker and growing very distant. I only talk to him on the phone maybe once a week for less than an hour. We rarely text, and his sleeping schedule is the opposite of mine so while I'm at school and busy, he's sleeping and when I'm sleeping, he's awake. Yesterday, we got into a serious talk over the phone and I got a little upset and just told him to text me. So as we were texting, I was being kind of emotional but IN NO WAYS was I being mean, hurtful, etc. just sad. He comes out of nowhere and asks, "do you think it's strange to get horny while being sad?" and I just replied with "ugh idk bye" and he sent me texts every few minutes until he went to sleep. In those texts, he repeatedly stated that he "saw that on a facebook status" and that he "would never ask me something like that pertaining to himself". I didn't reply to any of them. I did wake up in the middle of the night, and I checked facebook to see if he was still ranting, and he posted something along the lines of "facebook causes too many problems" and then someone commented (I couldn't see who) and he deleted it. Today, he texts me and tries to tell me that the status wasn't even relevant to me or anything we talked about. He said it was about his friends, but I doubted it. He brought up the "question" again and this time said that he saw it on stumbleupon. It was believable, but he had already told me he saw it on facebook. Then, he said I was being ridiculous and that he told his friend about it and his friend just laughed at me. I was hurt by this. None of his friends like me or even care to meet me. They don't know who I am, and they judge me so quickly. I'm just so confused, and I don't even want to think about my boyfriend right now. Am I wrong to feel like this?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 December 2011):
Why do you only talk on the phone once a week?
He’s getting unemployment and sleeps during the day… HOW OLD IS THIS MAN?
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