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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:If you went out of your way to make an effort with a guy and you made him feel involved, after nobody else would. But then one evening he was a jerk and treated you without any ounce of respect! Said somethings that were insulting/inappropriate to you, things a guy should never say to a girl! How he doesn't find you a challenge, he knew he would have you and basically said that you are that girl, you know the one who gets around a lot and a guy wouldn't have to do much to get you in bed.Because, this guy was very very drunk!! But still, i don't think that makes what he said excusable right? I mean we didn't kiss or do anything, so I don't know where he got the idea that I was that girl, even my friends couldn't understand it since i've never done that. He said he just assumed that was who I was?I saw him on friday, but I didn't say anything to him because I don't know whether I should forgive him and put it down to that he was very drunk? What would you do, I'm just really insulted that he would say those things and I don't know what to say to him, or whether to forgive him and move on....
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2011): Nope. An abusive drunk should still be held accountable otherwise then they don't get drunk. Drinking responsibly means you are not excused for your actions and words.
Even in the law courts, they now hold a drunk accountable for his sexual predator behaviours as its been proven medically that you are still AWARE of what you say and do. Just you can become more lax in the standards of behaviours.
I say cut him out of your life indefinitely. He has issues.
Its taught behaviour he is perpetuating and you can do WAY Better than that drama and garbage his drinking invites into your life.
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