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I opened the bedroom door and found my boyfriend making out with the birthday girl!!!!

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Question - (12 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm at full time work and because of it I don't get to see to my boyfriend very often. Well one night I went to a friend's party. I didn't ask my bf to come because he doesn't really know my friends and I thought it would awkward for him. Long story short I heard my boyfriend came anyway so I looked for him. My search lead to a bedroom and I opened the door and saw the brithday girl making out with boyfriend. They didn't see me but I've never been this hurt in my life. He hasn't called me since and I don't know what to do.

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A female reader, Twilight#1 United States +, writes (12 December 2008):

Twilight#1 agony auntThis is easy. Confront him! You should have confronted him the moment you saw him with another girl. That way he couldn't deny it. Most likely he will deny cheating on you. Whether it was the birthday girl or not it was still very and utterly, absolutely, incredibly, totally WRONG. Don't feel like you can't. Please Tell him and keep us posted. Just be like:

"That night at the birthday party, someone told me you were there, so I looked for you, and when I found you, you and the birthday girl was sucking FACE! Don't try to deny it, I saw it with my own eyes, and if you have any respect for me you wouldn't dare deny any of your cheating ways! Sooo what do you have to say for yourself?... cheater!"

thats what I would say... but say what YOU would say... Just giving a little help on the monologue..

Hope I helped

Christine ^.^

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008):

confront him!

immediately!

tell your bf exactly how you feel and what you think of him

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A female reader, always.curious.ray. United States +, writes (12 December 2008):

always.curious.ray. agony auntStraight up comfront him about it and if he tries denying it say yeah well I saw you doing it!!

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