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female
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30-35,
*haotic_crystal09
writes: ok so i have this guy! his name is tom he is like the all time greatest guy in the world! he is like my dream come true! i love him like IN love with him! but he has a girlfreind! he likes me but he likes her a little bit more! he always tell me im sexy and just all the sexual thoughts he has about me! ya anyways his girlfriend forbids me to talk and or see him. she is controlling! she has never even met me face to face and she hates my guts terribly! i want him so so bad its killing me inside and out! what do i do?!?!?! please help me!!!! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2008): Of course she hates you, you're trying to get her guy! Imagine how you would feel if you were his girlfriend and some other girl was trying to steal him away! You would want to control the situation too. You wouldn't just stand back and let it happen would you??
Now, the way I see it, the problem isn't the girlfriend, its the guy! He has a girlfriend and yet he is telling you about his fantasies...is that a turn-on? He's showing you his true character...and it's not very nice! Remember one thing before you pursue this...a man that will cheat WITH you, will also cheat ON you! Think about it!
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