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writes: My boyfriend and I are both 18 and have been together for almost 3 months and are very close. We were both virgins when we met (although he is a little more experienced but still hasn't had sex) we and have gotten intimate and wanted to have sex but have been wanting to wait until after winter break so I can get on bc while I'm home. Weeelllll last night was our last night together before he left for break and of course we spent the night together. We got intimate and close as usual, and he started rubbing against and pushing into me. I reminded him we were supposed to wait till I get on bc but we both wanted things to be special before we left (since we wouldn't get to see each other for 3 weeks) and he was already starting to slide it in little by little and it felt sooooo goooooooodd so I gave in.. And we had talked about not using condoms because we wanted it to be natural especially our first time (which I why we were waiting till I was on bc) so we didn't have any anyways. When he got close he asked what I wanted him to do but in order to not spoil the moment (plus it was just feeling way too good) I told him it was up to him, and he said 'are you sure' and I said 'yes' so he finished inside me.I must say it was the most intimate and incredible experience, but I feel a little disappointed that we couldn't wait until I was on bc. But we were both just willing to take the risk and I don't think my chances of getting pregnant are all that high since it was the first time and all. And we both love each other and had talked about having kids in the future so I guess it's ok if I am but it's still earlier than I had planned.He left this morning and I'm leaving tomorrow. When's the earliest I can find out if I'm pregnant or not? If I'm not pregnant will I still be able to start bc over break as planned?
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reader, bellasmommy33  +, writes (13 December 2008):
First of all, you said you didnt think you were at high risk because it was your "first time and all"... YEA your WRONG. NO matter what your ALWAYS at high risk. (unless you use protection) anyway, you gotta wait until after your period to start bc and if you dont start your period within a week afer yout suppose to start it, you might wanna take a P-test.
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reader, piggytoes1818 +, writes (13 December 2008):
Well it depends on when your period is next. You can't go on birth control until after your next period anyways. Let me know when you are suppose to get your next period and I can tell you how long you have to wait, it will probably be 2 weeks.
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