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writes:I am 24 and my husband is 34, we love each other very much, he was never really into sex, he rather masturbate then have sex because he feels like he may take too long.... recently i have noticed that he does not want to have sex at all, like he has totally lost his sex drive.... i dont know what to do, he would rather look at porn than have sex. i feel so bad because when i do wait up for him, he ignores the fact that i want it. i have confronted him about it, and he said that he just recently lost his sex drive because he has way to much on his mind, focusing on his business and work, and then his family.... which i understand... he also said i need to so something to spice it up and i have no idea what to do..... i need help, i love him so much and i dont want things to happen like this, we have only been married 2 years and have a child together.....
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reader, taurus_m99  +, writes (13 December 2008):
Hi, I hate to say that porn kills love between partners, he doesn`t feel for you anymore. Try to make him realize that watching porn over normal relationships is a problem, let him seek help, it takes therapy, you can read articles and try to help. When he stops watching these super beautiful models, he will realize his mistake. The good news is that sex with a woman is more satisfying than masturbation, so , there is hope. I am male and i was like your husband
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reader, petina1  +, writes (12 December 2008):
 Sounds like he thinks sex is boring. You could have a look in the Anne Summers shops or other shops like it. Get some handcuffs, tie him to the bed and make him have it. hope this helps.
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reader, bellasmommy33 +, writes (12 December 2008):
When men say "spice it up" i think it means to dress sexy, so dress sexy for him and when you have sex, make sure you do work too. Take turns and make each other happy. And to get the mood started do things like, nibble his ear or rub his chest or thigh to get him excited. Maybe he thinks you are a little boring so hes gotta look at porn to get horny.. Maybe you should try watching a porn WHILE having sex? hopefully things get better. :) good luck
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