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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok so here is my situation...I recently got into a relationship with a guy I have known for over 5 years who has been in love with me the entire time. I met him through a mutual guy friend and he has always expressed his feelings for me yet I did nothing about it until now. Anyways, ever since I have gotten into a relationship with him, I feel as if he never shows me any affection. If we kiss, its only a 1 second peck as we say goodbye..and if we do anything sexual, it is because I initiated EVERYTHING. When we are having sex it only lasts about 2 mins and I truly believe he fakes orgasms (yeah it seems pretty weird) but he just acts so fake when hes pretending to cum, then he runs quickly to the bathroom and then crawls into bed and turns the other way. I do not know if I am overreacting or not, but he NEVER touches me..never holds my hand, puts his arm around me, etc..to me, it feels simply like a friendship more than anything. I've addressed the issue about always having to initiate sex and he never really answers me...What should I do?
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reader, mz_lani1  +, writes (12 December 2008):
 U should be strong of a woman that u are n move on with ur life without him..it seems as if he's jus around because u want him around or as if it seems he has somethin that he's holding on to n it not u, but its probably somethin that u do..
But first, u should really talk to him about how u feel, because it really feels crappy wen u're into someone and they're not into u. Trust me, I kno how it feels. Jus talk to him and see how things go for the two of u n if he doesnt respect how u feel then, ask urself "why am I in this relationship?"..Collect ur thoughts and feelings and talk to him..and then after u talk to him--the next move is yours sweetie..
Take Care and Good Luck and Happy Holidays..
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