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writes:Interested in getting lots of opinions please - is it true that a man is more interested in you if you play hard to get, and that being available 24/7 to a man can be a turn off? I have been reading up on different sites and this seems to be the impression I get. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): HiIs a man more interested if you play hard to get?well suppose it depends what he's gonna get! I would play a little hard to get....don't get a taxi back ...take a nice leisurely stroll. let him twang your stockings.. then let him chase you around the block once or twice...and if he catches you and you fancy a bit of slap and tickle on the way, give him a good slap then run once more around the block. Buy this time it should be moonlight at least he wont see everything all at once, if you strip an item of clothing off each time you run. The question is will he still be interested?Yes if you steal his wallet and clothes as well.via con dios!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): It depends on the man really. Some like the thrill of the chase and want what they cannot immediately have. Others do not play games and will simply move on. I don't think you can universally classify what men want in such a fashion.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (12 December 2008):
 Yes, coming across as too easy, he won't feel like he's got a good catch and could get ideas above and beyond his station as well and thining he is gods gift will probably be looking elsewhere all the time. Once you have married him and have a few years behind you, it is okay, it can turn the other way then and he will realise how much you really do love him. hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): A man likes the thrill of the chase.
If you give in too easy there's no sense of achievement. It's like the rabbit stopped running, lets you pick it up by the ears and take it home for dinner.
On the other hand, if you play too hard to get he'll lose interest and go looking for rabbits that tire of the chase rather than springboks that don't.
So basically it's a case of striking a happy balance between the two.
I know, it's a crap analogy but I'm sure you get where I'm coming from.
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reader, Miss Clueless +, writes (12 December 2008):
 Personally, I do think that playing hard to get does make a man more interested in you... no matter how long you have been going out. I have just recently discovered this for myself the hard way. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and for the past few months we have spent almost every minute together. He has now told me that he wants to see me less so he can do guy stuff like play on his playstation. I think when you spend too much time with a guy, not only do you start to bicker, but they take you for granted. Since I have left him alone I've noticed that he is doing all the chasing and texting. It keeps him on his toes! Hope this helps.
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