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36-40,
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writes:me and my boyfriend have been dating for over three years. in the beginning of our relationship we had sex about 5 times a week and know its about 5 times a month. the last time we tried having sex he couldnt get hard. i was wondering if this is normal and what i could do to fix the problem?
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (13 December 2008):
 If your boyfriend is the same age as you then he is rather young to be having ED. It is possible that it is a sign of some other health problem so it is worth having a check up.Of course, no young man wants to go in and see a doctor and say that he is having trouble getting it up but it is easy to go in a say that he has "less energy than before" and that he is interested in having a general check up to see if he has any underlying health issues.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): It's normal for sex to taper off in a relationship. You can't get enough of each other in the beginning but then it becomes routine and you engage in it less. That's why you sometimes have to create a spark and make an effort to keep the intimacy alive or it withers an dies.
All men experience the inability to get an erection on occassion. Sometimes we're simply too tired or too stressed to perform. It happens from time to time for everyone. If it's happening frequently, then that is a sign something is wrong and he needs to see a doctor. He may have ED or his testosterone may be low.
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