A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hello! I have been together with my girlfriend for almost a year now. I love her very much and everything would be fine if not for one little problem. Everywhere she goes without me she meets a guy that she likes. The last time that happens she told me it was because he was like me and she wasn't able see me for a long time. They got pretty close but nothing happened as she told me. She was in love with him but the moment she told him how and way she was feeling she said that she stopped loving him. I was so jealous when she told me about it and it got under my skin. I belive she didn't cheat on me because she wouldn't have told me anything otherwise. Am I right? I am afraid that one time she will go too far and I don't like her getting to close with guys anyway. Please tell me what to do!
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reader, Wildlife dude +, writes (1 August 2007):
She sounds immature and clearly not ready for a one-guy committment. I think she's still curious about what's out there and she's looking around while you're gone or whatever. It's only a matter of time. She's too young to be tied down, still has some wild oats to sow.
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reader, eddie +, writes (1 August 2007):
Wll....she shouldn't be getting that close to another guy. Sometimes people mention what they did just to make it appear like they had nothing to hide. It helps a guilty conscious. Not that she's guilty of cheating physically but she knows she was in a situation that was inappropriate. You either put up with her behavior or tell her to stop. That is not asking too much. If she thought she loved the guy, they spent way too much time together.
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