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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hello, I met this guy, and i really really like him. and hes 21, doesnt have a car, and im only 16 and i cant drive. we tried to hang out several times but it seems like something always goes wrong, i met him like twice without something going wrong, (like once the times got mixed up, and something happend and i couldnt show up or he couldnt) i told my parents that he was 19 and they freaked out, and his parents dont approve. we really like each other..and i think hes getting tired of the dissapointments, and i am to, i want to try. i dont know what to do. its not even for the sexual stuff, we just want to hang out. please, any advice? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (2 August 2007):
Hey hun, the reason your parents are probly freaking out about his age is because they are worried that he is only going to want one thing from you and that is sex, try sitting down with them and tell them that it is not about sex you just enjoy hanging out with him...But whatever you do dont piss them off about him because they can call the cops and have him arrested the best thing is if they tell you no after you explain what you guys do then i wouldnt bother being with him specially if you like him alot, and just wait intil your 18 to be with him...and his parents probly dont approve of you guys being together, because that is a big risk for him, he can be put in jail on sexual rape assults and everything else. even if you do say that you havent had sex with him or that you wanted it they can get him on other assults so just talk to your parents and his and take it from there...good luck
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