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I really like this girl I met online, but she says she doesnt want to lead me on

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Question - (1 August 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 August 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay i'm zell and i'm 17 and i really like this girl i need some advice because i'm wondering if she likes me or anything you know?

okay first off I met her over myspace and facebook, she's absolutely drop dead sexy....well anyway it's over the computer so i figured i'd ask for her number to get things started, she rejected me said she needed to get to know me more which i understood..so as the story goes on we talked over yahoo instant messanger myspace and facebook all the time and i figured i know her good enough to ask for the number so i went for it again and i got it yay.

But as the story goes on we start talking more and more phone calls ending at 2 in the morning from like 10 or so, but now it was time for me to see her so we arranged a date to meet, and of course we met up i took her home and in the car on the ride there she couldn't stop smiling laughing at every silly thing i said and putting on lipgloss.

So anyway the day ends with a hug no kiss =( but a hug lol and i talked to her on the phone more after that and it's just all going good and i'm cofident that i can win this girls heart right!!

But then i remember that we talked on the phone one long night and she was telling me about her Ex or whatever and him not wanting her back and so on so do i use that to my advantage?

And also i'm finding myself more attracted to this girl than anything and i'm putting all my focus on her, she told me she doesn't know what she feels and that she's exploring her options, she doesn't want to feel like she's leading me on cause she's still hurt from her ex you know?

I haven't talked to her in like 2 days after she said that what does all this mean i'm so confused on what to do about her it's been like a month since i've met her and i already got feelings for her but i really don't know how she feels about me ya know? so any advice can help me now

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A male reader, GreenTea United States +, writes (2 August 2007):

wait another couple of days. i would say a week total. Then call her if you still have feelings for her and tell her that "I want a relationship, and if your ready for this then I want to do it. But if your not, i dont want to continue this.

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