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36-40,
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writes:what should i do i have a two boyfriends now,i dont know who really i choose,my 1st bf mamed vic,we have almost 1yr relationship but we lack of communiction and then now i dont feel any feelings for him,im not happy now to him.my second bf was jason we just new,but im so happy everytime im w/ him.who will i choose is it jason whom the one who makes me happy but i have no assurance that he was serious to me or vic but im not happy now to him but i have assurance that he loves me?plz help me.......... Reply to this Question
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reader, Uncle Trev  +, writes (1 August 2007):
Do not ever stay where you are unhappy. The longer you stay there the more you will regret it - you will end up despising him.In your shoes I would go with the new lad. You are still relatively young with your whole life ahead of you so go out there and live it a little.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (1 August 2007):
 Go with Jason. Communication is a big thing in my books and if Vic is closed off that way, it's going to continue to make you feel like you're not really close. I married a "Vic" and believe me, he never changed.
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reader, LauraE +, writes (1 August 2007):
Hi,
At your age, you should not be thinking about staying with someone that you don’t care for. That sort of decision should only be difficult if you are married and have children together. Vic isn’t the one, maybe Jason isn’t the one either. But there is no desperate rush to commit finally to anyone. Do what you want to do – it sounds like you want to leave Vic for Jason – so do that. Maybe it will work out, and maybe it won’t, but you won’t know if you don’t try. Life is way too short to stick with something that isn’t working when you have a chance to do better.
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