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writes:im dating my 2nd cousin who is 20 years older then me and dont no how to tell my perants. anyone have any advise?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): I suggest visiting cousincouples.com to answer your question for advice and support on how to proceed telling your parents.
As for the previous posters, age gaps make no difference and neither does dating a cousin. Hell my cousin and I love each other more than we ever loved anyone and we have that same 20 year gap. If people don't like it that's just too bad. Walk a mile in a person's shoes before judging. Isaac and Rebekkah were first cousins (once removed)in the Bible with that same 20+ year gap. So to the original poster, don't fall for anyone preaching to you it's a sin. Good luck!
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reader, carebearer +, writes (30 August 2007):
I have to say that the whole age gap and related thing does hint that your older couisin may be a bit perverted. I dnt think theres anything too wrong in two cousins with similar ages dating but with a man 20 yrs older than you. Something may be up with him, and your just too young to know it.I'd say defiantely tell your mum/parents by your self and ask them if its wrong and why its wrong.
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reader, GreenTea  +, writes (2 August 2007):
Break up. Cousins don't date. and 20 years is wrong. he is most likely a perv.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): break up. they will eventually find out (if) you marry him.even if he is sexy.i have a aunt who is really sexy.i dont hit on her.
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