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writes:I have a girlfriend and we've been dating for a year and a half. We have a 4 month old baby. Our relationship was really strong at first, but now I'm getting bored and 'falling out of love' with her. I revently started talking to my ex, and all those feelings are coming back. What do I do, or, how do I tell my g/f?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): I have a 4 mo. old too & stay home with her all day. I gave up school & my job & having fun to do this. I am very bored. but this is life. we have a child, we have to make sacrifices for that child. well, i guess a man could always just walk away. but it isn't the right thing to do. I am bored with my life too. but there is no way I am leaving my baby's father for some old feelings of excitement. I would rather make my child happy & be a good parent. It's part of growing uo & realizing life isn't always going to be fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): If you think it's worth breaking up your family to be with an ex, then be prepared to pay child support for 18 years. Also, why did your relationship w/ your ex end? Are you sure that you wouldn't just get bored with her too? Then your current girl may find another man that will be raising your child, and you'll be stuck with child support & only seeing your child every other weekend. Are you prepared for that to possibly happen?
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 You need to decide whether you want to work on the relationship with your girlfriend or cut ties before anything happens with your ex. If you really see no hope with your girlfriend then you need to end things with her by telling her what has gone wrong with the relationship for you. Try to do it as friendly as possible as there is a child involved and you both need to stay in touch for the kids sake.
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reader, blackrosesoxoxox  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 mate talk 2 your girl first befor u get 2 deep with your ex there might be a way 2 bring back the spark my husband was feeling the same you are now and i didnt realise that i was negliting him because i was so rapped up with the baby PLEASE TALK 2 HER FIRST!!!!
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