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writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for just about 10 months, and we used to spend most of the days with eachother and we always had fun times. But lately everytime I invite him to hang out with me he seems to always have an excuse not to, and when I call him he never stays on the phone with me for longer that 15 minutes. And for us that is strange because we would talk for hours on end every night, and now he just says he is busy or we have nothing to talk about anymore because we have shared all our stories and we know basically everything about eachother. It just seems as if he is getting bored of me, and I really miss him. I love him, and I know he loves me back...please help me, I really don't know what to do. I don't think I could ever break up with him, I love him so much. Reply to this Question
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reader, ohdear16 +, writes (1 August 2007):
ohdear16 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Yes I am 16 years old, and he is my first love. I can't see myself with anyone else. We have talked about marrage, and even having kids. We talk about all those kinda things. But the other thing is... he is still way into our sex life, he loves to have sex. But most of the time I want to go out and do stuff and he is more into the sex. So I don't know if that has anything to do with it. I know he is not using me for sex...
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reader, kelpel +, writes (1 August 2007):
sounds like the 'honeymoon period' has ended for him, but not for you. This isnt neccessarily a bad thing, he probably just wants his own space too.
If you are meant to be together things will work out for you. Try going along with what he wants for a while, and talk to him about how you feel.
I notice you are still young 15-16, is this your first love? and are you his first love?
I was with my first love for almost 5 years. We were very close for 3 of the 5 years, then we both started to want to do our own thing. we kinda out grew each other. It happens when you are young, so make sure you just keep having fun. just remember, there are plenty more gorgeous fellas out there, if it doesnt work atleast you have fun together while it lasted xx
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