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writes:i haven fallen for the guy my best friend likes! i mean fallen hard- i dnt want to hurt her, or lose her! me n this guy hooked up a couple of times but the second i found out how much she liked him i backed off (i knew she used to have a thing for him but she was with another guy wen it happened but we kept it quiet which i know was stupid) now ive found out he was jus passing the time with me until he could get with her which explains why he wanted it to be kept quiet. he's really apologetic, an says he never meant for me to get hurt bt i just dont know what to do! im happy that she's happy-i really am, i just wish it was with a different person. i dont want to feel this way. the one person i want to cry to about being heartbroken is the one person i cant. if i lost her i wouldn't have anyone, but i don't want to feel for him anymore either-what do i do?
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Well it sounds like hes a waste of space to be honest, playing you to pass time to get with her. I really wouldnt waste time with him, it is a hard situation though so i can understand, i realise your concern when you say that you want her to be happy but not with him, and i can understand why. I would try and warn her about what hes like, and convince her she can do better, or he might hurt her in the same way. Time is a great healer and you will get over him. You deserve much better.Take care xxxxxxx
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reader, nikki! +, writes (2 August 2007):
 the situation sounds hard you obviously like him and i no how it feels when boys treat you mean and keep you keen what im concerned about is your friend if she new you were getting with him she shouldnt of gone there so if hes worth fighting for i say try and show him what hes missing by been friendly and he'll be begging for you let me no what happens x
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