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Is it ok for a virgin to use a sex toy?

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Question - (1 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Is it ok for me a virgin to use a sex toy or doll or do i need experience with these things ? like with a vibrator i have never put anything inside me like tampons so i am not sure if i should put a vibrator in me . the only person who put something up inside me during an pap smeer(?) examination was a female gynecologist . though what she put inside me stung it didn't hurt . then she put her finger in me . that to was weird . so do i need them or should i wait to have sex just to use them ?

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A female reader, puzzled Ireland +, writes (10 August 2007):

puzzled agony auntits perfectly natual to use sex toys before having sex vibraters are a great starter and if you want can be used any time. good luck wi your issue hun

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A female reader, advice lady United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2007):

Of course its ok, just because your a virgin doesnt mean you have to wait to use a sex toy. Try it out and just see what its like.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntIts perfectly fine for a virgin to use a sex toy. Just "play" about with it to find what you like. You can wait to use sex toys or you can use them now. :)

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2007):

aphexinfinite agony auntok tampons wont break youre hymen it will most likely stretch although if you have a tough hymen you will need to get a small procedure to deal with that. as for the masturbation give youre self clitorus stimulation first that will ease you more to use a toy although i would still use lubricant buy a small toy excert youreself use lubricant and use it gently, experiment with them is the best way to know how you like it, search the net for ideas im sure people have a good choice of vibrator for first time users..oh and majority of people say that in the begining breaking youre hymen was what determind youre virginty but now its youre first intercourse with a man, you dont need sex with a man to use a vibrator hope this helps xxx A

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