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writes:hey ummm my g/f wants to have phone sex. i didnt want to and got realy pissed at her, cuz she said that her friend and her boyfriend probaly done it. but idk how to have phone sex. well i do. but i dont no how to explain to her that i dont want to have it. also weve told ea other that were horney or not sooo. i just need tips. Also now about seeing these many post on these sites about people around my age doing sex im thinking about her having that so now im realy worried. and most of the time were on the phone she wants to talk about kissing or phone sex or sex. its a bit weird for me cuz weve been going out for a month and ive felt like i known her for a year.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 You saying to your girlfriend "I don't want to have phone sex" should be enough to tell her you don't want to do it. Tell her you don't like the idea or just don't want to when you explain this to her. She can't MAKE you do it just because her mate is doing it. Does it really matter if her mate has or hasn't?!
Relax about all the sex related stuff on here. Not EVERY kid your age is having sex. Some will be yes, but not all. YOU have sex when YOU are ready not because others are doing it or because you feel pressure from your girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): you need to get exactly what you've just said to us across to her. You're both young and this is something i think you both are not mature enough for. You clearly aren't ready for it, and she's only wanting to do it because EVERYONE ELSE IS and i think you are both too young for all this sort of stuff. Your girl is obviously believing that everyone else is doing all sorts of things and believes she should be too, infact i bet you that hardly anybody your age is doing this, if they are then there is something going wrong in today's society where 14 years olds are acting like they're 10 years older.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (1 August 2007):
 yes many young people are having sex but can i mention again like most people on here its illegal to have sex till youre 16 youre not fully devloped yet and less mature, i waited till i was 16 and i wish now i had waited for the right man and the man i thought was right..ide say look i love you but i dont feel comfortable to do that just yet, and reasure her that its not because of her, hope this helps xx a
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