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writes:Hi... i'm 17 years old... I have a great boyfriend now and we've been going out for almost half a year. I honestly think i'm in love with him and i love being around him. A while ago i had this really weird dream... where he was REALLY hurtng me... ever since i havent been getting much sleep cuz i always have the nightmare. And just this weekend we were all up at a cabin with some friends and he acts like he's drunk if he doesnt go to sleep when he's super tired... he was acting so weird and it brought back every memory from the nightmares. I ran into a corner and started crying and the only person who helped was his best friend who's like a big brother to me. Now i'm scared to get close to him again... i dont know if i'm scared of him, or the fact that he could really hurt me because of how strong he is. Please help, i dont know what to do
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 I have a theory. If you tell someone about a dream you have, it won't come true. Of course, that makes about as much sense as actually beleiving these nightmares will come true. Your dreams are just acting out some deep-rooted fear you have that your relationship is going to fail. It's nothing, but the more weird you act, the more chance you have of causing it to come true. I sometimes dream about my b/f being with another woman and when I wake up the next day, I kinda feel mad at him. It's just a dream-hangover. Shake it from your mind and forget about it. If he hasn't given you a concrete reason to worry, then don't.
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