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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:okay, this might be long, sry. So i was texting one of my bestfriends and she started asking me if ive ever thought about being lesbian. I told her yeah and we started talking about it. We both decided it would be better to be bi because we like guys to. But she told me that she liked two girls a lot and one really turned her on...that turned out to be me. We started talking about being in a relationship, but we didnt know what to do or how to start it cause neither of us had had a girlfriend before. So after a while of trying to decide she said she was second guessing it all, and that we should just be friends, i was fine with that. But does she really mean it or is she just scared..we were planning on keeping it secret, but its against both of our religions, but were both kinda rebels. I dont know what to do....im willing to do anything with her, but i dont know if she was serious about it...she said she was but idk. Do i talk to her about it? If we do get into a relationship how do we start it? What can two girls even do besides fingeing eachother?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): Well, your both obviously bi-curious. If you and this girl want to try experience what its like to be with the same sex then maybe you should give it the go ahead and see if you enjoy it. Two girls can do alot of things to do with sex such as strap ons, toys so on. By the sounds of it, your friend really likes you and has already confronted this to you, maybe shes second guessing because she feels she made the wrong descision telling you and is scared she ruined the friendship or that you think differently of her. I suggest you have another chat with her and see what happens, but i think seeing as you both are willing to try out a relationship you should go for it and just see what its like, whether you choose to keep this a secret or not is up to you guys.
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