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writes:I'm about to sleep with someone for the first time and I feel really nervous about it. I've slept with others but not this person in particular so it will be our first time together. I actually feel a bit embarassed about my nether regions, is this a common thing?! Sounds like a funny question but I'm sure other women know what I'm talking about! Any advice on how to relax..? Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, floraltemptaions  +, writes (27 April 2007):
Of course you will be a bit nervous, but I agree with the pre-arranged waiting for a job interview scenario in the last post! You need to enjoy and have fun. Have some pamper time before you go out with him... have a bath, trim up the stragglers (if you know what I mean!), shave your legs and make youself feel good about you! And just relax, because your not going to enjoy yourself if your thinking about all the what-ifs. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007): First, and somewhat off the point, I'm intrigued to know how you know you're about to sleep with this person. Is this a pre-arranged thing? If so, it's not surprising you feel a bit nervous about it, you've had time to think about all the worst-case, highly unlikely scenarios, a bit like waiting for a job interview. In my experience sex with someone for the first time is usually so spontaneous and impassioned I'm only too happy to get the old chap out!
Second, there is nothing to fear. Talk to him about how you feel and ask him to tell you if he has any concerns. Say you'll be happy to talk about it. Chances are he'll be right up for it regardless of what's happening downstairs for you, if he's a typical bloke. If he has an issue and is decent, he'll politely discuss it with you. If he puts you down, it's his problem.
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