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writes:HiHelp I'm only 12 years old and I'm pregnant. I did it with 27 year old man. I don't know how to tell my mom. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, babylove08 +, writes (1 November 2008):
ok look I'm 11 years old me and my boyfriend have been datin for 4 years and we are ready to have a baby but my mom is the one who wants me and my sister to be interested in school work not havin babies or havin sex but you did your pregnant you and your mom have to deal with it. now you have to tell the baby father or he will bail out on you but say it in a nice way. this is your baby you had sex your pregnant but you have to do everything for your baby. so just be the best problems e can be the best of friends. Feel free to email me at this site.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): How could you get in trouble by telling her age on here? Nobody know who you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): Yes you need to tell your mom. You should also tell the guy he has the right to know also. Maybe he will be manipulative and maybe he won't. Oh boy here it goes (I know what I did was wrong but it is too late to turn back time) When I was 31 I had sex with a girl and got her pregnant. She told me and we yes we both told her mom. We are still together and expecting our 3rd child I am now 36. I love her and she loves me. Again I know it was wrong but it happened. Tell you mom and also tell the guy.
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reader, Cordelia +, writes (14 May 2007):
 Hey sweetie, the first thing is Yes your mum is going to kill you, not literally but youll get a lecture and there'll be crying, but your mum loves you. Do not go near the father of your baby, he may be very manipulative and may even hurt you. If you need more help private message me darlin' Love you loads good luckCordixxxxx
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reader, Keria  +, writes (30 April 2007):
Dear, you need to talk to your mom. DON'T talk to the guy about it. Just talk to your mom. You can tell her who the guy is, but if you talk to him, he may try to manipulate you in some way. It is best to leave off all contact with him, unless there is an adult like your mom present.
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reader, Clueless.. +, writes (28 April 2007):
Well, You Really Need To Tell Your Mam.
She Needs To Know, Its Better Her Finding Out From You Now Than Finding Out Later. Just Tell Her YOu need To Talk To Her Privately And Say You Dont Want Her To Get Mad Because You Are Worried, Then Tell Her. She May Be A Bit Shocked But She Really Needs To Know.
Also, This 27 year old man is in the wrong. He Could Go To Jail For What He Has Done.
You Really Need To Tell Your Mam, It Might Be Hard For You, But It will Work Out Much Better If You Do.
Good Luck.
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reader, maverick +, writes (28 April 2007):
 I appreciate this is probably a scary experience for you it will pass though.It would probably be better in the long-run to have have your familiy's support. I guess it looks scary now, but telling your mother maybe most helpful.Please send in another question, or contact the site again if you have anything else you would like to ask.Please take care of yourself. M
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reader, beautifulllove +, writes (28 April 2007):
 first sweetheart you need to say mom can i talk to you for a min. and then when its just you and her you need to tell her you had sex with a man that is 27 years old and explain what happend not what all you two did together but how it came about and how you two came to know each other but then say mom i think i maybe pregnant and you want a check up and then she'll take you to the doctor. but this man wasn't a good guy it doesnt matter how good he made you feel and i dont want you to feel like a child but later in life you'll understand what i mean when i said he took a lot from you and some things you'll never get back and he is 15 years older than you and it doesnt matter if he's 6 years older they need to go to jail for what he has done. just please tell your mom and everything will work out just stay a way from the man you had sex with. if he knows your pregnant and your age the fear of him getting caught may give him another way of thinking and the last thing is for him to hurt you!Good Luck xoxo
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (28 April 2007):
 Hun you really need to tell your mom she is gonna relize that you are pregnat and its going to be worse and plus you need to see a doctor asap so they can make sure everything is ok with that baby, trust me she is gonna get very upset but just sit her down alone and tell her that u have had sex and that you are pregnat, and when she asked with who u have to tell her and im not trying to scare u but that man is going to jail cause he is way to old for u but u have to tell your mom asap!
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reader, Lau-sta +, writes (28 April 2007):
 you will have to tell her right away there checks that needs to be carried out just sit her down and tell her she will be more worried then mad.
and this lad you need to tell some one about him what he did was wrong
please please just tell your mam you will feel alot better for it
please let me know what happens
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