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*ephiroth
writes:Ok, just a quick question.... Why are homosexuals (male) do polygamy? And why do they resort to threesomes when they feel there is no love in their relationships... Why, huh? I'm gay and I just feel mad about this! All people that I meet are cheaters or freaks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2007): I am not sure why, but maybe it is what happens when it is just men involved. But hey not all gay men are that way! I am gay and I have never had a threesome or been unfaithful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2007): That can't be helped on how others think of homosexuals. The person I was talking about in my comment is my brother. My mom knows about his sexual orientation, but my dad is in denial and doesn't support this at all. Being his brother and in stress of not treating him better when we were younger, I have grown quite fond of him and though initially, I didn't wholely accept him, I only wish him to be healthy and happy. My mom has thought of taking him and his boyfriend out to lunch to get an idea of my brother's partner, but I know for a fact my mom will never absolutely accept it. My dad on the other hand for sure will always never accept it.
There are a lot of people who think that homosexuality is an abnormality as you probably already know, and it will probably take half a century before homosexuality gets more widely accepted. It's just like having coloured people in the states doing the same jobs and having the same rights as white people - it takes times to get that recognition of equality and such. It's also like women in many countries of the past where they had less rights and freedom than men. These things take time, and it won't happen in the near future, that's for sure.
However, the thing is about your friends into polygamy is that well, that's just the way they are. Polygamy isn't necessarily a bad thing. It's just a different thing than the common norm.
As a conclusion, maybe you would like to look elsewhere for friends whom are more exclusive to their partners, rather than having polygamy in their desires. Which is of course, what you're asking, but the obvious answer is also a difficult one to find ones of a monogamy nature. Surely. You might want to consider moving to Vancouver. We have a huge gay community. My brother knows a lot of non-polygamy homosexual couples. Like I said, this depends on the area you find your friends, etc.
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reader, sephiroth +, writes (28 April 2007):
sephiroth is verified as being by the original poster of the question Dont get me wrong..... maybe I was mad when i posted this question, but I do have a boyfriend and we've been together for 3 years now.... We have little friends and most of them are straight. The ones that are gay turned out to be doing polygamy, swingers or cheaters. I wish i could introduce my friends to my family one day... but being like they are I dont think thats gonna happen. :( Even if I tell someone that I'm gay they immediately think I'm some kind of guy who sleeps with guys at the same time, females even get afraid of me cuz they think im gonna steal their husbands!! Please!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007): Well, this is obviously an inaccurate view of male homosexuality. A family member is homosexual and he's been with his boyfriend for a bit over a year. They currently live together and aren't involved with threesomes. They travel to different parts of the world together, hang with friends, do all the stuff that couples do and should do, and still come home occasionally to check up on the family.
They met through a party I believe. So this depends on where you've met your interests, and the type of people you meet. This isn't dependent on their sexuality. As a heterosexual male, I've met way more questionable heterosexual and bisexual men and women than any homosexual.
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