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writes:Six years ago I met this guy. We dated for about six months. He seemed emotionally unavailable to me so I pretty much moved on. We have remained friends over the years and kept in contact. We met up a few times over those years as well. He showed up to my house unannounced even one time to see how I was doing. Just last week I saw him and his daughter at the movie theatre. My two children and I sat right behind him and his little girl. He did not see us and I chose not to say anything. I called him the next day to say hi and tell him I saw him and see how he is. He left the lines of communication open and gave me his cell number. We have been in touch each day almost and he asked me out on a date. I have always had a soft spot for this guy in my heart and seems that no matter how many years pass that feeling for him remains. I want to see him more often and see where this may go. I do not want to get hurt. I just wonder how this might work out with there being so much time elapsed and I wonder if he is even emotionally ready for anything. he says he doesn't want anything from me. he also said it is always nice to be around me and he has never felt uncomfortable around me and we always laugh together. I guess the main question would be how can I tell if he has changed emotionally and if he is ready what are the signs? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2007): First of all, is he still single? I would find that out first, and next, I would just go out with him once to see if he's changed. You really don't know what he'll be like unless you spend more time with him. When you're with him, see if what he does is the thing that was missing 6 years ago. It sounds like he's a really nice guy, so good luck with him!
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