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am i being paranoid or what? Do you think she's seeing someone else?

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Question - (27 April 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi guys,am i being paranoid or what? my girlfriend of 2yrs has slowly been pushing me away, not turning up at my house on numerous occasions and when she does there is always an excuse, phone was flat out or misplaced it, she dont mms me as often in fact very rarely, dont kiss me or hug me often and as for telling me she loves me thats non existant.we use to go places together now she wants to go alone and no longer informs me,she even wants me to go out with the lads at weekends instead of her also sex was once a nightly thing now its between 3 and 7 days,am i right in saying she`s seeing someone else

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2007):

Ive found that most woman fail in long term relationships. Have either one of you brought up your views on marriage? She may be detaching herself. If so, it most likely has nothing with her wanting to see other people (as most of us men assume). It may have something to do with her wanting to commit to you but does not see the relationship going there.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007):

seems i have the same problem but with my fella,i have asked him and as of now i still aint had a reply,and he accuses me of playing around,if i find out he is as much as i love him he`s history as i got self respect and pride in myself,and im not into sharing

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A female reader, trueheartconfused United States +, writes (27 April 2007):

Hi ,

Yes, I think you are right , she is either seeing someone

else or planning to .

Other signs of cheating also include the following:

1) She pays extra attention to her looks now than before.

2) Can not reach her by phone for a certain period of time.

3) When it comes to sex, a sudden change of routine. or

simply tatally lost interest.

4) She can be extra nice (becuse of guilt ) , or extra

mean , depends on how things are going with her new guy,

or just moody all the time and get irritated easily.

5) She lies .

If she's already had all the behaviors I mentioned above,

she is probaly already sleeping with someone.

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