He told me that it was because of his ex wife and how she treated him, that he cant trust anyone anymore.

A female age 51-59, *onfussed and hurt writes:

i met my bf about a year ago, at first things were great, he would call me almost every hour on the hour, want to see me, be with me, take me out, he wanted to do everything together, until about 2 months ago, when he started to change towards me, he stopped calling me as much as usual, it went from 5 to 6 times a day, to 2 times a day, then he would promise to call back and didnt, he stopped wanting to see me, went from seeing each other one time a week to seeing each other 2 times a month, then he told me i was pressuring him, that he needs space, but he doesnt want to lose me, that he loves me more then anything else in the world He told me that it was because of his ex wife and how she treated him, that he cant trust anyone anymore, i have tried to talk to him about this, but he shuts me out, i dont know what to do, i feel like im losing him and its making me a emotional wreck, he said it wasnt me that he is the one that has the problem!

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