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writes:does he love me? ok here goes he say he does but i feel like he dont, we have been thru a hard time in out relationship since hes family doesnt like me and he has been telling them were not together. i love him so and feel as i can say forever but every time i bring up our relationship he has to get off the phone or ignores the topic but that hurts me and have tried to be more distant from our relationship in fear of getting hurt, ever since we got back together after breaking up over hes family he has been kinda cold toward me and when he's not acting like were just friends he trys to act cool toward me like im just one of the guys. i am confussed about what to do he is real jealious over me but doesnt seem to be as in the relationship as he was. i really need help im scared im losing him and i also feel as were not as close anymore as we were, back ground info we have been together a little ove a year and at frist things were great and we were always around each other and couldnt live with out each other if we werent texting or on the phone than we were together we couldnt go a day with out each other and then when we broke up we went a month with out each other but he was the one who contacted me and we started talking and got back together but as this i miss what we had but i feel as i cant get it back he doesnt even seem to want to see me. im visiting my brother and wont get make home for a month so i cant see him face to face but we talk for maybe 20 mins a day maybe everyday and i dont hear from him on the week ends at all. i dont think my heart can take more than it has, he said in time all will go back to normal and i just feel that we need to work on it as well as letting it come natural, can some one please help me ?!
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reader, trueheartconfused +, writes (27 April 2007):
Hi ;
Let him go , he doesn't love you .
Yeah, he called you a month after you broke up, but don't
read too much into it. I believe he cares about you (as
a friend or sister) at certain level, but I am sure he does
not love you.He is treating you like a friend or sister now
,you do not have a relationship any more , if you want to
continue to wait , to see if things will get better, you can
do that, you are still young , time is on your side, but
a few years later, you will find yourself lonley and
heart broken even worse than now, and you are no longer young, you will really hate yourself then because you've
wasted those good years of your life on him.
Of course he said in time all things will go back to normal, well, deep down , you probably already know he
is just saying those things to keep you hooked,some guys do that , they will say things you like to hear to
string you along , but if he does not express his love
with his actions , those words are just lies.Think about it,
after a month of seperation, he should be missing you like
crazy , and those were the only things he can come up with?
When you and him decided to break up , your relationship
had already broken, it is very unlikely to fix something
that's broken , don't waste your time and energy on
something that's impossible to do.
Go out and date other people,he's already moved on, so
should you.
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reader, NJmomabear +, writes (27 April 2007):
 Yeah, this doesn't sound good. I think he's with someone else on the weekends you don't hear from him.
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