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writes: She keeps pushing me away....My girlfriend and I got into a fight again.....It started on Tuesday when my father made some harsh remarks about the 2 of us to me, while my g.f. was not around. It really upset me and I decided to tell her.Also, my roommate isn't the most motivated of peoples and also an employee of my dad. This leads to my dad finding out everything I do with my gf, to an extent.Now my gf wants me to get out of the apt or get rid of my roommate, but can't do to the 1 yr lease. Also, she was really upset about the whole situation, and was really down, I actually did nothing wrong, I stuck up for her, my roommate did as well.And yesterday 4.26.07, my gf and I were talking alot of stuff over and while I was driving, I hit a huge pothole against her advice to move the car over, and she snapped.I think it was the stress of the whole situation that caused it, but after I took her home, she called 10 minutes later to have her meet me to eat. And it went somewhat well.She expects me to tell off my dad and roommate in a argumentative manner, which is how she is, very confrontational, I'm very mild mannered and try to avoid conflict.Because of all this, she doesn't want anything to do with me, it's very immature the way she's handled it. I bought her flowers to try and cheer her up and she threw them at me. Also, it's been affecting sleep, work (I missed the last 1.5 days), and everything else.And just the other day we went on a road trip and talked about our future, getting a house, family, etc. I love her with all my heart, I just think she might be bipolar, cause it's always really happy, or pissed off to the extreme, also she said she didn't love me anymore, but I could tell in her eyes it hurt her to say it and she said it in the heat of the moment.I'm done chasing her and going after her, it's time for her to come back to me, which she has to cause she has her clothes and stuff at my apt. Also, she was on myspace yesterday after all this and never changed her status....
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reader, SpainGal  +, writes (27 April 2007):
 The best thing to do is talk to her.
Get your feelings out on the table, maybe even cry a little.
As silly as it sounds, girls love seeing guys venerable.
Just explain in detail how you feel about everything, ask her why she is this way and why the sudden mood swings.
Things should work out, if not, at least you will know the reason after your long chat. ^.^
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