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How do I find the clitoris?

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Question - (27 April 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2007)
A male Canada age 51-59, anonymous writes:

This might sound like a strange question, but How do I find the clitoris? I know there's a sort of a bump at the top of the vagina area that is really sensitive, and I'm pretty sure that the clitoris is supposed to be able to stick out just below that... One or two of the women I have been with seem to have a little tiny thing sticking out from there, but many have not. I've heard I'm supposed to "roll back the hood", but I'm not sure what that means. Is it the skin of the bump that I was talking about? How much can I roll it back? Is it possible to hurt her by rolling it back too much? I've heard some people say that a clitoris is like a little tiny penis.. and that's why I thought that that little think sticking out must be a clitoris. But do some women not actually have them? How can I get at it, get it exposed, and not hurt her by doing so?

Thanks for your help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2007):

They can be pretty tiny too. Mine is tinyer than india's pic. I've heard the penis comparison before but don't really get it. Maybe some womens are pretty big. All shapes and sizes and what not

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (28 April 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntAll though I could attempt to tell you the exact location, I think what you really ought to be doing is looking up female genetalia online. A picture is worth a thousand words, so I looked up a picture for you. This is a great diagram, it's not a drawing and I think it'll give you the perfect idea of where the clitoris is located.

http://www.sex-project.com/female-anatomy.shtml

Also, why don't you ask the woman you're with to show you what she likes? Mutual masturbation might be an excellent (and fun!) way to find out about each other and how you both achieve pleasure.

Many happy endings to you, sweetness!

xxIndia

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2007):

Yes you are right with the location, but in my experience i woulndt role the hood back to expose it, as that can feel a bit painful and uncomfortable.

The hood is the skin that covers the actaul clit. just run your finger over it gently and massage it, gently though. Most me have a tendancy to rub it like they would a dog!!

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